Perseverance And Love
At the prodding
of my friends, I am writing this story. My name is
Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from
De Moines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano
lessons-something I've done for over 30 years. Over the years I found
that children have many levels of musical ability.
I've never
had the pleasure of having a protégé though I have taught
some talented students. However I've also had my share of what I call
"musically challenged" pupils. One such student was Robby.
Robby was
11 years old when his mother (a single mom) dropped him off
for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys!) begin at an
earlier age, which I explained to Robby. But Robby said that it had always been
his mother's dream to hear him play the piano. So I took him as a student.
Well, Robby
began with his piano lessons and from the beginning
I thought it was a hopeless endeavor. As much as Robby tried, he lacked
the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel.
But he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces
that I require all my students to learn. Over the months he tried and tried
while I listened and cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each
weekly lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play some day."
But it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability.
I only
knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off
or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always waved and smiled
but never stopped in.
Then
one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons. I thought about
calling him but assumed, because of his lack of ability, that he had
decided to pursue something else. I also was glad that he stopped
coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several
weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flyer on the
upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked
me if he could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current
pupils and because he had dropped out he really did not qualify.
He said that his mom had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessons
but he was still practicing. "Miss Hondorf...I've just got to play!" he
insisted. I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the recital.
Maybe it was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me
saying that it would be all right.
The night
for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed
with parents, friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the program
before I was to come up and thank
all the students and play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage
he would do would come at the end of the program and I could always
salvage his poor performance through my curtain closer."
Well the
recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing
and it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were
wrinkled and his hair looked like he' run an eggbeater through it.
"Why didn't he dress up like the other students?" I thought. "Why didn't
his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?"
Robby
pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was surprised when
he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major.
I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys;
they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to
fortissimo...from allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart
demands were magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well by
people his age. After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo
and everyone was on his or her feet in wild applause.
Overcome
and in tears I ran up on stage and put my arms around Robby
in joy. "I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it?"
Through the microphone Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf...remember
I told you my mom was sick? Well actually she had cancer and passed
away this morning. And well.... she was born deaf so tonight was the first time
she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."
There wasn't
a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from
Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care,
I noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy and I thought to myself
how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.
No, I've never had a protégé but that night I became a protégé...of Robby's.
He was the
teacher and I was the pupil. For it is he that taught me the meaning
of perseverance and love and believing in yourself and maybe even taking
a chance in someone and you don't know why.
This is
especially meaningful to me since after serving in Desert Storm
Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal
Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995, where he was reportedly....
playing the piano.
And
now, a footnote to the story. If you are thinking about forwarding
this message, you are probably thinking about which people on your
address list aren't the "appropriate" ones to receive this type of message.
The person who sent this to you believes that we can all make a difference.
We all have thousands of opportunities a day to help realize God's plan. So
many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice:
Do we pass along a spark of the Divine? Or do we pass up that opportunity,
and leave the world a bit colder in the process?
Written by Mildred Hondorf
Submitted By: Ruby Dannhaus

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